Because you’re the one and only person that truly knows about what matters - and doesn’t matter - in your life.Alicia Keys, her husband Swizz Beatz, and his ex-wife Mashonda Tifrere have mastered the art of maintaining a healthy and happy relationship while being a blended family. You don’t need us to tell you that - it’s one of those things that you’ll realize for yourself when the time comes. But more often than not, it’s just not worth it. Drama is oftentimes unavoidable and sometimes it may be that you don’t necessarily want to avoid the drama in the first place.Īnd yes, if the drama or a tense, conflicting situation can help you speak your truth, then, by all means, let it out. Therefore, she and Mashonda dealt with the drama, developed a functional system, and just went about being the best parents and step-parents they could. The kids’ wellbeing was in question, and nothing could ever be prioritized over that. She knew what mattered at the end of the day: family and togetherness. Alicia Keys, as pristine as her life may seem at the moment, also encountered a world of drama but instead of buckling under the pressure and turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms, she found a path of love and understanding with Swizz’s ex-wife. Life and drama go hand-in-hand, so you’d have to be a rare being to not have ever dealt with it. Set drama aside and focus on what matters
We’ve definitely disagreed, it’s not that we haven’t disagreed We definitely have had moments where we’re like, ‘Hmm that felt weird,’ but we definitely communicate in a way, we don’t let it build up. In fact, Alicia said on Late Late Show With James Corden recently that while she and Swizz often have disagreements, they never raise their voice at each other.
Hey I might not really be your mother/That don’t mean that I don’t really love ya/ I think you’re beautiful/I think you’re perfect /I know how hard it gets /But I swear it’s worth itĪs far as the whole family has come in the last few years, it doesn’t mean that they don’t encounter new challenges. Alicia addresses Kasseem directly, saying: The lyrics for the song communicate everything there is to say about Alicia’s love for her stepson and his mother. Mashonda released her book Blend: The Secret to Co-Parenting and Creating a Balanced Family in 2018, and Alicia wrote a song called “Blended Family” in 2016. And so everyone “put the work in,” and began to heal as a family.Īlicia and Mashonda are so proud of their co-parenting success that the two have crafted songs and self-help books about it. But they thought about Kasseem, who was getting caught up in a family battle through no fault of his own. Mashonda revealed that it was a “rollercoaster” and it took many a therapy session to get it working. We go to dinner together, our family is one big beautiful family it’s a beautiful partnership It’s a real thing and it’s possible.Īlicia added that both Swizz, Alicia, and Mashonda make an effort to spend time together with the kids and that they have each others’ backs. We love each other, we hang out with each other. In a joint interview with Swizz and Mashonda, Alicia spoke about the co-parenting arrangement and how the entire family tackled their personal differences for the sake of the kids involved. The same sentiment was felt by Alicia herself. We realized we could minimize the impact on our children by reducing the conflict we had with one another. Time has a way of healing things, but we also had to heal ourselves. Thankfully, the complicated family was able to make amends at some point down the line because Mashonda told People Magazine that they were able to repair those broken relationships. Genesis’s arrival also meant that Swizz now had four children by four different women. But Alicia began to embrace her “blended family” and became a super stepmomĭespite the drama with the ex-wife, Alicia and Swizz were married by July 2010 and had their first child, Genesis, the same year. Things turned from bad to worse when Swizz and Mashonda fought over child support and carried out a lengthy legal battle. We can only speculate what really occurred between Swizz, Alicia, and Mashonda but it’s safe to say that the three of them had landed in a quandary. They both said that Swizz and his wife were already broken up when he started dating Alicia. While Mashonda was launching her accusations, Alicia and Swizz denied that their relationship had broken up the marriage. It took no time at all for Alicia Keys to be labelled as “the other woman,” in the relationship.
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